
I believe the reason we are shocked is that we were not properly prepared for the YES. We really didn't think it through to the end. We may have visualized and conceptualized the details in our minds and then we forgot one major piece of the puzzle.
What do I do with it beyond my visualization - when I have it how will I handle it? This is the missing link for most and sometimes me included - write what you know correct?
I have done and am doing all the necessary things I feel will take me towards my goals and then what feels like a mad rushing stream, opportunities (I use the term loosely) are coming my way at a rapid rate that are in direct proportion to what I have been envisioning and working towards! Yes I do have a dilemma of sorts, because the problem is that I didn't really define clearly enough what would happen when I got them, what the steps are that I now need to take to put them together....
Now, the next step is to define which opportunities if taken would hinder the process, which ones do I still desire and finally which ones are true links to my big goals?
These are questions that are absolutely necessary for anyone who is being presented with the open doors that may lead them up the path closer to those big goals or are they really a test, a deterrent of sorts to test you to see how convicted you really are?
Big questions, ones that we need to take the time to sit back and really think through. My experience shows me that I must journal these opportunities and play them through to the end on paper to see if they are truly part of the path or a deterrent?
Enjoy them in this moment, you have desired them, asked for them, worked for them and you deserve them..... now ask yourself do you really really want them?
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